Well, at least it was supposed to be another gathering but ended up, only 3 of us met. Me, Z and P. The 3 ‘cute’ ones. Ahaks.. 
Oh well.. Doesn’t matter. We still had a good, open, downright honest, heart to heart chat between the 3 of us. A lot of experiences, observations and analysis shared. The good, the bad and the ugly side of friendships and relationships. The ups and downs. The obvious and the not so obvious. The what-ifs and the could-have-beens. The pros and the cons. The minuses and the pluses. Top, bottom, left, right and centre – we spoke about a whole lot of issues. And it truly does opened my eyes and mindset a wee bit more than it already is. Well, at least I’d like to think so.
Dun feel like writing down much tonite frankly but just thought I’d leave a word or two. I realise that no matter how long you’ve known someone, how close you guys are/were, how often you meet and communicate, it doesn’t really mean that you know all there is to know about that person. There will always be that hits-and-misses, those lil’ slither of information which you will no doubt be ignorant or oblivious of. Plainly said, you simply are not informed of. Or choose not to know. And I say, leave it at that. I believe that if there are things or information which you are meant to know, you will know. No matter what. Truly only He knows better what you do or don’t need to know. Don’t spy. Don’t intrude. Don’t pry too much. Lest you will find out things which aren’t truly to your fancy. And will therefore cause you unnecessary heartache and pain.
Sometimes we gotta learn to give people the benefit of the doubt. Maybe they deserve it, maybe they don’t. But let’s just put it this way – what you don’t know won’t kill or hurt you. At least that’s what I’ve been told quite a few times. And yes I do think that may just work. Ignorant may not be for some, but at the same time I reckon there are moments when ignorance can indeed be blissful. And necessary for that matter.
= c’est moi =
